Saturday, July 14, 2012

It’s a Relationship, Not a Religion


In studying and praying about what I should write next here, I came to the conclusion some things I had already taken on faith.  I knew that I knew, but never tried writing it out before.  So after studying faith, grace, love and mercy further, I found that I could spend years on these topics alone.  Of course, the most important thing was where to start.  I decided to start with how we relate to God and how He wishes to relate to us.

Sure the Bible is full of rules God gave us for how to live, but the truth is we cannot follow them on our own power.  We need His help.  He is willing to help if we believe in Him and ask.  Without faith in who God is, we cannot even access what He has for us.

His love is unconditional in all this.  John 3:16 is well known by many, which states:  For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. (NIV)  He sent Jesus to be our example and the only way to Him, knowing we needed the help.  He did not want us with our free will to be lost to sin, but have a way to climb on out of the mire.  This demonstrates how unconditional His love is and is stated in Roman’s 5:8.  But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. (NIV)

Why bother doing this other than for love?  He could have just as easily remedied this some other way.  He would have never had this issue if he had decided to make us automatically do His Will without question.  However, we were given free will in order to chose to believe Him or not.  We have free will so we have the choice of returning His love or not.  He wants us to respond to Him freely and as unconditionally as He has to us and will continue to when we call out to Him in faith.

His grace gives us what we do not deserve; what we cannot earn with our own power.  His mercy makes sure we do not get what we truly deserve for our sins.  So no matter what we have done or how bad we think we are, God has given us a way to connect with Him and His great love.  All we have to do is believe in Jesus, who He sent to show us the way and the truth.  God’s love towards us is about this reconciliation that He has made available.  2 Corinthians 5:19 says, that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men's sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation.  (NIV)

Jesus told His disciples they were friends, not just servants in John 15:13-15.  Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.  You are my friends if you do what I command.  I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. (NIV) God, through the power available in Jesus, wants us to know Him better and act more like Him, but will not force us to.  Sure, like any loving parent, He will definitely let us know when we are off track, but He does love us enough to let us step out and learn even if it means we make a mistake or two.

Being a Christian is not about going through the ritualistic motions correctly and being in church on Sunday.  It is about us having faith in God so we can access His love, grace and mercy as a friend.  Our faith allows us to learn who He really is and how to properly apply His amazing grace to life knowing He is there for every step, wrong or right.  It is a relationship that grows over time as we learn about Him and lean more upon Him.

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